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Boundless Leadership: Never lead alone

They say it takes a village to raise a child. I think this is true of any success as a human: it takes a community to support us in our struggles towards our goals. Yet leadership can feel incredibly lonely, surrounded by people who need and expect something from them. Instead of feeling boundless, they feel bound. Bound by expectation, by obligation, and our own inner demons.

Surround yourself with a leadership community

We are also caught in a cultural trap where we expect leaders to be the Hero and to have all the answers. The Strong Man myth is alive and well in national politics: Trump, Putin, Kim Jong-un. There is something so attractive about the Knight in white armour coming to save the day.

The truth is no one man, or woman, can save the day. The world is too complex, too interconnected, for one person to have all the solutions.

What we need is to lead with questions. We need to sit in ambiguity and be ok with the discomfort of not knowing if the path is the right one, and to carry on regardless.

The pressure of being the one to find all the answers is too great. 92% of work related mental disorder claims are due to work-related mental stress. 

The pressure of carrying the weight of an organisation can be overwhelming.

Never lead alone.

Leaders need support outside their team, outside their organisation, to get fresh perspective, and to simply be the human without having to wear all their façades as armour.

Leadership does not mean all the answers all of the time

This is why I go to Thought Leaders Business School. I lean on the expertise and insight of my peers and mentors who have similar experiences, greater success, and who care about me as a human being. I can be the best version of me, and the most vulnerable. I can share the warts and all failings of my efforts, and celebrate the achievements too.

So where can you find such a community? Start with hiring a coach or working with a mentor. Next find a place where you can be yourself. Maybe this is a sporting group, or a community group. For true business success, seek a community of like-minded peers where the focus is on business improvement. There are a number of these across industries, and I can recommend several.

Just start, reach out. You are not alone.

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About the author, Canberra leadership expert Zoë Routh:

Canberra based leadership expert, Zoë Routh, on getting yourself a leadership community.

Canberra based leadership expert, Zoë Routh, on getting yourself a leadership community.

Zoë Routh is one of Australia’s leading experts on people stuff - the stuff that gets in our way of producing results, and the stuff that lights us up. She works with the growers, makers, builders to make people stuff fun and practical.

Zoë is the author of four books: Composure - How centered leaders make the biggest impact,  Moments - Leadership when it matters most, Loyalty - Stop unwanted staff turnover, boost engagement, and build lifelong advocates, and People Stuff - Beyond Personalities: An advanced handbook for leadership. People Stuff was awarded Book of the Year 2020 by the Smart WFM Australian Business Book Awards.

Zoë is also the producer of The Zoë Routh Leadership Podcast.

www.zoerouth.com